Say it or don’t

Covering your mouth while delivering a cutting remark doesn’t make it less cutting. It just makes you less accountable. Soccer players figured this out. Shield the mouth, land the jab, deny the evidence. Clean hands. Dirty game. Sound familiar? The hallway...

Accountability changes behavior

Ever wondered where your kids’ good behaviors come from? What about the bad ones? Look no further than the mirror. Children absorb what they see. They model what they experience. They normalize what we tolerate. Why is this any different in organizations? It si...

Get a dog

We say we want advice. What we really want is someone to nod along. To affirm the path we’ve already chosen. To tell us we’re brilliant for thinking exactly what we’re already thinking. That’s not advice. That’s a mirror with a voice....

When belief needs permission

We’ve heard the stories. Hundreds of voices, consistent patterns, documented experiences. Yet we wait. We wait for the handwritten confession. The authenticated document. The smoking gun from beyond the grave. As if truth requires a signature. The paradox...

Who questions your choices

Power has a peculiar effect on judgment. The higher you climb, the quieter dissent becomes. Your board might nod. Your team might smile. Your family might defer. But who actually stops you when you’re about to make a costly mistake? Consider Theranos. Elizabeth...