Verity outplays nice

Being direct isn’t cruel – it just may be the deepest form of respect. Dancing around issues wastes everyone’s time and creates confusion where clarity should reign. When we sugarcoat, we rob others of the chance to grow, improve, and understand. We...

Sharp tools, sharp mind

Kitchen wisdom runs deeper than we realize. When cutting onions makes me cry, it is easy to blame the onion. But here’s the truth: often, if I merely sharpen the knife, the problem is minimized. The truth is a dull knife does the real damage. Blunt blades crush...

When problems play hide and seek

Life has a wicked sense of humor. The strange truth reveals itself at the most inconvenient moments. Your car’s disturbing rattle transforms into perfect purring the instant you pull into the mechanic’s lot. That throbbing tooth pain vanishes precisely as...

Life’s not your game

Living authentically isn’t a strategy. It’s a revolution. Most people think life’s a chess match. They calculate moves, plan responses, and guard their position. They always want the upper hand and think to outmaneuver. However, a 2021 Harvard...

The hidden cost of being late

Time is the ultimate equalizer. We all get 24 hours. No exceptions. A study from DePaul University found that chronic lateness costs American businesses $90 billion annually. But the real cost is trust. Researchers at Harvard discovered that people who are...

The truth about teams

Teams aren’t what you think they are. They’re better. And worse. The Hidden Pattern “Great vision without great people is irrelevant.” – Jim Collins Look at your last team meeting. Who spoke? Who stayed silent? Count the moments of real...