Tsundoku is a Japanese word describing the art of amassing reading material and never reading them. Bibliomania is the passionate enthusiasm for collecting and possessing books. The words appear to have the same meaning, yet they are remarkably different. Both have a similar outcome, in that there is a collection of unread books. The main difference is in the intent at the outset leading to the collection.
You encounter situations where the end result is not necessarily your ideal, and it causes you consternation, aggravation, and in many cases inconvenience or possibly even a set-back. These may be self-inflicted or brought on by others. Should our reactions always be the same? If the disappointment was brought on after the best of intentions and effort by an individual, how can we assess it in a similar light to the instance when there was little intent or persuasion to deliver on the promise or expectation?
Our lives are filled with such instances. When a person had good intentions and failed, should this be an opportunity to appreciate the efforts made and a moment of development for both of you? When a person fails you because that was their plan from the outset, is this not an opportunity for your growth, and to move on from such situations?
Life is short and it is important to understand your reason for amassing a collection of books.
