Get a dog

We say we want advice. What we really want is someone to nod along. To affirm the path we’ve already chosen. To tell us we’re brilliant for thinking exactly what we’re already thinking. That’s not advice. That’s a mirror with a voice....

Your label

You can never label me..? What stands out? While you may be some things—even guilty of others—a few traits rise above the rest. Not a long list. Just a few. That’s what makes you unique. Precious. Understand them. Wear that badge with honor. It resonates. Stop...

Not for you

You hate it. The product, the service, the brand that everyone seems to love – you can’t stand it. Maybe it’s Starbucks. Maybe it’s that popular restaurant. Maybe it’s the software everyone raves about. And you’ve made your stance...

The mirror trap

I caught myself mid-sentence yesterday with a client. “You need to…” Stop. That’s not my job. My job isn’t to tell founders what they need. It’s to help them see what they already know but haven’t admitted yet. There’s...

Lean into questions

We’re addicted to the big reveal. The moment when everything clicks. When the consultant presents slide forty-seven, it suddenly all makes sense. However, the breakthrough doesn’t come from finding better answers. It comes from better questions. You...