Stop feeding your worries

Time isn’t your scarcest resource. Attention is. You waste mental energy on things that don’t exist yet. Problems that might happen. Conversations that may never come. Outcomes beyond your control. Three questions end this waste: Is this thought true? If...

But it didn’t happen

Those discussions of contention arise when you discover something didn’t happen as it should have. As you thought it should have. It didn’t happen. That will not change. Why lament what may have been? That energy is futile and disruptive. We gather in...

Corruption’s innocuous beginnings

Corruption isn’t just about politicians stuffing briefcases with cash.. It starts when you skip the difficult conversation because it’s uncomfortable, when you hire your friend instead of the best candidate, and when you bend the process “just this...

Ego blinds everyone

The most powerful and richest people on the planet are locked in a very public struggle. But this isn’t about policy or progress. It’s about ego. Ryan Holiday nailed it in “Ego is the Enemy.” He wrote, “The ego we see most commonly goes...

Should you deep fry everything

The British chippy taught us that anything can be deep-fried. Mars bars, pizza, even ice cream. The oil doesn’t discriminate. But skilled chefs know better. They understand that just because the fryer accepts everything doesn’t mean everything belongs...