We squirm. We deflect. We diminish our light.
Someone says, “Brilliant presentation,” and we rush to say, “Oh, it was nothing.” They praise our outfit, and we point out a tiny flaw. They admire our achievements, and we credit luck.
Here’s the truth: Accepting praise isn’t arrogant – it’s respectful. When you deflect a compliment, you’re telling the giver their judgment isn’t valid. Their perspective doesn’t matter. Their appreciation is misplaced.
The next time someone offers praise, try this: Look them in the eye. Say “Thank you.” Period. Let their words land. Let yourself be seen.
Because accepting a compliment isn’t about you. It’s about honoring the person who chose to lift you up.
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