The actor Keanu Reeves is known for his laid-back attitude and ability to see life’s humor. In one interview, he was asked about his philosophy on arguing. He said, “Life is too precious to argue with another person over trivial or in some instances, factual matters. Some would like an argument regardless of their position. But, then, for you, to what gain? As I say, ‘Yes, 2+2=5. I agree. And have a good day.’ Enjoy that debate, discussion, argument, or whatever you choose. But then do it all without me.”
Reeves reminds us that we should not waste our time arguing with people unwilling to listen if someone is determined to believe distortions, falsities, and mischief, then there is no point in convincing them otherwise. It is better to agree to disagree and move on.
Of course, there are times when it is essential to stand up for what we believe in. But we should also be selective about the battles we choose to fight. If an argument is not worth our time or energy, it is best to walk away.
Reeves also reminds us that we should not take life too seriously. Sometimes, it is more fun to agree with someone, even if we don’t mean it. After all, what’s the point of arguing if it won’t get us anywhere?
