We have all heard these expressions or forms of them, ‘To be honest with you’ or ‘with all due respect.’
Maybe we should stop and ask a question before we listen further. Does this imply that the individual is typically dishonest with you? Why should a vacant expression command different attention?
Would we not be in an ideal world if we could have discussions with individuals and know that they are being honest, open, and caring and that we did not have to attempt to read into what they are saying? Would our discussions not be far more productive and even pleasant if that was the case?
We should rather look to practice honesty and respect at all times, and not require a pointless preface before we have a discussion. To be known as that person and welcomed by others because of one’s honesty should not be momentous, but instead something we can aspire to daily.
