Why is it that we may choose similar options and yet the outcomes can be vastly different? Be it four years of college, a training program, apprenticeship, partnerships and even relationships.
It is not a factor of time or even the specific characteristics of the person or entity, but more so where their focus is applied, and the extent of dedication. Our disappointment with outcomes is rarely attributable to external factors, but more so attributable to actions in our control. We should start with ‘what did I do to warrant a different outcome?’ If we commit to something, plan, deliberately execute, and allow others to be a part of what we do, what do the conclusions typically look like?
While we can simply say we have limited control on outcomes, we can likely determine the result beforehand based upon our focus on, and level of effort and commitment.
