Kintsugi

Inevitably anything that we create and appears perfect will either break or, in time, become worn and now imperfect. Accepting it for what it is and embracing the imperfections to come is necessary. We all develop scars in time, and our ability to wear them and accept...

Not a popularity contest

We want others to like you, accept and admit you as part of the team. But, added to that, we are in roles or positions that require us to make decisions in the organization’s interest, which may not be the most popular or favorable decision.  These may...

Longing

A sense of wanting connection and the yearning to seek something that helps us feel complete or brings us closer to that feeling. It is an essential element, a need we all have. We choose to fight or dismiss it, yet we should not ignore it t since it will prevail....

Loose lips sink ships

Gossip is a reality of everyday interactions and one that brings very little positivity, if none at all.  However, the inevitability of the behavior means that we should at least be prepared for it and understand how we will deal with gossip. Like being out in...

I don’t need help

How often do we not think that? We all do at some point. It may not be desperate or alarming but instead vital. We believe we have the answers and likely will find them if we persevere. We are tired, frustrated, and even disappointed.  We are disappointed since...