Frustrations are just that, whereas complex issues draw on mental and often emotional insight and strengths. Being who we are, we want to know the answer to questions and now is preferable. The answer may be simple, in which case great. Or it may be complex and not be a simple right or wrong alternative yet one that is specific to this situation and requires some thoughtfulness.

Although the question may have similarities to previous situations, it will likely have unique elements. While the past may be a guide, it is not an assurance of certainty for today nor the future.

So when asked ‘what’s the answer,’ it merits thought to compare to past experiences, and the nuances that make it different. While the response could merely be a stock answer, a little introspection may reveal previously unknown possibilities. Could no immediate answer be best? It likely depends on the situation.

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