These are my people

An expression individuals use to describe the people who resonate with them and that are often in their image. These people make us feel comfortable and whole in some ways. We relate, and we’re aligned. Over the years, friends, colleagues, and even possibly family...

Appropriately scary

Climbing a rockface as a novice climber, stepping into a new job, making a long-term commitment, or becoming a parent for the first time.  All are daunting, and while each brings a sense of excitement and exhilaration, there is a fear.  If you feel that fear...

As wonderful, if not better

The artist in the 80s you so admired still plays, writes, or paints. Time has passed. They may not look the same or have the same perspective as back then, but nor do you. The comparison to their previous self adds little value. They have evolved. They sound great and...

Nurture the talent

The talent exists. Each individual has some talent. At an early age, we experience diverse stimuli, some we find attractive and lean toward while others never seem to connect with us. Some children are naturals in sports, academics, building, crafts, music, or the...

Own our flaws

The most brilliant composer, musician, artist, parent, teacher, athlete, student, professional, worker, partner, boss, or whatever title they associate with, each of them, while as good as they may be for their prowess, all lack or are wretched at other undertakings....