We are accustomed to ‘no’ being a negative response.
‘No, you did not get the new position.’
‘No, the loan was not approved’, and on it goes…
‘No’ is the positive you have been missing all this time.
It is likely that job was not the right one, and that was not an organization you want to do business with, and you do not need the additional debt.
Saying ‘no’ to opportunities you are offered can be good, too. It suggests you know your value, who you are, and understand what is important to you.
No, frees you to say yes to what truly matters.