It is interesting how those two words can provoke such diverse yet intense feelings among individuals. It can be seen as an immense opportunity, while for some, those are dreaded words the preempt a discussion of personal or professional demise.
We should talk. All too often, issues manifest through the lack of open, genuine discussion. When we have no debate, we have limited understanding, appreciate other perspectives, and inevitably fall to assumptions and judgments based solely on our own opinions. And it is typically our lack of knowledge and awareness that creates confusion and discord.
If we do talk, we do so on those that are simple enough and comfortable with. However, while those conversations need to occur, the ones that are divisive, polarizing, and complex are essential.
How do we have these discussions in a manner that enables open thought sharing? We need to create a safe environment, establish the principles of behavior that permit learning. Essential in the process is allowing ourselves to listen, hear and understand. We do not have to have opinions and maybe in a better position if we merely learn.
If we do not talk, how do we ever create a common language and understanding from where we can grow. After all, we cannot exist in isolation, and we are best to embrace all we encounter respectfully.
‘Let’s talk’ should become our opening salvo for open discussion and learning. If we don’t, we remain forever ignorant and blinded by our inherent limited vision.
