We should pay little attention to those who are critical or negative about us when they don’t even know us.
Instead, listen to those close to you, and know you. If we are fortunate to hear what they are saying, listening with intent will bode us well. They know you, and they not only see you for who you are but are well aware of how your behavior impacts them and makes them feel. If in any way they are courageous enough to share feedback with you directly, listen attentively, and learn. It would be foolhardy to dismiss entirely, and we can always reflect on why they may think what they do and whether there is truth in the statement.
All too often, though, those discussions are occurring behind our backs. However, if anyone is bold enough to provide you with any insight, understand that, in all likelihood, to minimize potential hurt or meanness, it is softened.
No one is perfect, including you. You may initially feel disheartened, but if you choose to, you should appreciate the generosity of the gift being offered and be thankful.
