An individual may invite input before publishing or sharing the end solution in the design or conceptualization or even a simple task or communication. When we make a request at the eleventh hour, giving others little time to absorb the information, reflect, and thoughtfully respond, what is the nature input we seek? And then when others contribute, are we disappointed and frustrated when they suggest material changes.
What is the nature of the feedback we seek? Is our aim to deliver the best option possible, ensure that others understand it, or invite meaningful collaboration? Or do we merely want to be seen to be open to input, and all we want is validation?
If we seek input, let’s be aware of the timing of our request, and be sure we show our desire for genuine feedback and welcome the effort people make when we receive it. On the other hand, if all we seek is a rubber stamp, be clear. No one has time to waste.
