If you have come across, met, or heard the story of Andre Norman, you were likely inspired.
After being incarcerated for fourteen years, prison gang leader, a high school dropout, and destined to live a life primarily shaped by the influences of those he chose to identify with unless he decided otherwise, which he did.
While in solitary, Andre Norman chose a different path from being the tough guy to one that would turn his back on violence and crime and one dedicated to being successful and getting a degree from Harvard. And the way he would do it is by helping others. Some 23 years since his release from prison, he has accomplished both.
Yet one of the more compelling truths in his story is that we need to stop being cowards and stand up for those we believe in and what we believe in—those fundamental to us our need to be just that, our priority. But, of course, there will be instances where challenges prevail, and the only way we can reconcile with ourselves is to remain faithful to ourselves. Only one hundred percent can suffice. It is non-negotiable.
If you have chosen to be honest, then be that. If your children are the most important, then they are. What is essential to you is personal. Courage is a virtue we need to uphold, and these beliefs reflect who we are. Are we that person always or only when convenient?
To achieve the ideal you set, you will need to stop being a coward and stand up to the persona bully. Of course, some people may not like the firmness or finality of your decision. However, you should be asking whether they are there for you and how important you believe they may be to you if they don’t align with who you choose to be.
