In the American Civil War, the opposing sides were distinguished by the color of their coats: gray for the South and blue for the North. Though they appeared similar, they were engaged in a battle. While most of us may not be at war in the traditional sense, we fight internal battles daily. Some challenges stem from external sources, but our rhetoric often creates the most impactful struggles.
Amidst the chaos, we often overlook that we are all fighting our battles. We may find ourselves at odds with others, but underlying traits of commonality are waiting to be discovered. So instead of perpetuating differences, let us approach each situation with curiosity, questioning our beliefs and seeking common ground.
It is easy to succumb to extremes, clinging to beliefs and behaviors simply because they align with who we think we are. Yet, we must acknowledge our inherent hypocrisy, as these beliefs only hold when they support the narratives we perpetuate. So why do we remain inflexible in some situations while unpredictably adaptable in others?
Let us engage in deep self-reflection to unravel the layers of our beliefs. Through this introspection, we may gain valuable insights, even about ourselves. Why do we choose sides yet readily change our coats? Exploring these questions opens the door to personal growth.
In the words of Socrates, “An unexamined life is not worth living.” It takes courage to examine our beliefs, challenge our assumptions, and strive to find common ground. We can foster understanding, build bridges, and create a world where unity prevails over division.
“In diversity, there is beauty, and there is strength.” – Maya Angelou
