Those who care are necessary, especially when it is for others. The ability to nurture, support, and help is often welcome.
Knowing someone is alongside you on your journey is reassuring and comforting.
While that care may be welcome, it may not be at times. Repeatedly wanting information and inquiring how I am doing may not be what I need. ‘I may not want to engage in the discussion, and your care is now becoming a constant reminder of something I prefer to distract myself from.’
Being aware of the care someone may require is supportive, and appreciate that if you care, it may be best to allow them space, and they will bring you in as they need.
After all, if we care, let’s be sure it is about their need rather than fulfilling our need to be involved.
