Who does not enjoy hearing they are correct and all is wonderful? What when we are wrong? Are we intent on putting ourselves on a pedestal and constantly seeking approval, so we don’t look inward and reflect on whether we’re happy or growing?
Consider your use of social media. Do you desire social media likes or compliments? Are you intent on friends and followers?
Consider when you have grown. Is this because your thoughts and actions were accepted, or did you likely make a radical shift because of direct, candid, and critical feedback?
Our friends and family will be supportive and accepting. ‘You are ‘perfect’ in their eyes. However, if you seek an honest opinion, theirs will not help you when you are struggling and want to improve.
If you seek growth and improvement, reach out to your naysayers, critics, and enemies and ask for their opinion. They will tell you as it is, and you will benefit from this. Or, possibly better still, find those people who care for you and appreciate that placating you is ultimately not for your long-term benefit.
You can choose to hear that you are flawless regardless or understand the issue you are struggling with emanates from you. If you have an honest source, hold them close; if not, find them soon.
