Some apply rules for themselves and different rules for others. The same situation yet different rules.
If you choose to discriminate in applying standards, be hard on yourself first since there is likely some blame you can assign to your behaviors or actions in any given situation.
Imagine playing a game where we change the rules for each player. What game would that be? Would you call it fair, reasonable, or sustainable?
Keep the rules simple. Apply them equitably. If we understand them collectively, does it not seem fair and a game we can play, whether you win or lose? On the other hand, if it is all about your own rules, you may play a game of solitaire all the time.
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